Does failure exist in this world?

Failure, simply means that a person or a thing is unsuccessful or you can say non-performance of something which is required or expected. Well, in psychology, it is a state of mind in which person believes that he is a failure. Failure in humans is nothing more than the mere product of their own mind, which allows them to believe that they are failure. It doesn’t mean that one has to be good in all the things then they claim that they are not a failure.

Thomas Alva Edison a one big name in the science; was dropped from school because of his hearing problem and never went to school again and he often recalled that when he dropped from school; My mother was the making of me, she was so true and so sure of me that I had felt that I had something to live for. His words define that he never quit, he decided to do something so that he can live for something. when he invented electrical bulb and presented it to the public, someone shout Edison you fail 1000 times to make this one and we all use his memorable words today as a quote that; “I’ve not failed, I just found 10,000 ways that won’t work.”

Why throughout history we have number of people who did remarkable things in their life and they achieve what they really wanted to achieve. That’s because of one thing, they never quit, they never let their mind to generate negative thoughts that they are failed and they never listen to the people around them, that’s how they achieve what they want in their life.

Look around you what you see is a world to whom you can never make happy of yourself. What this world knows that it will push you back to the place where you raise from and if they cannot do so they started to pull you towards them. This world can never be happy, no matter what you do. So, how can you be a successful person? How you can beat failure?

If you do something and you failed it in a first try you can find yourself in a place where on one side you find some people who want you to try again, they were the one pushing you to do it, yes do it because they knew that you can do it. But on the other side, you find bunch of people who de-motivate you they started to call you a failure and said so many things to you that while sitting all alone their words through your unconscious mind started to hit your brain. That’s the time when failure can be born, your negative energy from those words push you to admit that you are a failure. If you stop their and admit that you are a failure, you can never be able to get out of that state and through out your whole life you kept thinking that you are a failure.

If you just give it a little push and forget about that negative energy which is generated by the people who call you failure, you can find yourself in peace, surrounded with positive energy and you can started to do that thing once again. You are one ordinary human being like all other humans living on this planet. We all share same size of brain, we all think both ways negative and positive, so it’s not the difference of brain. Difference starts how we use our brains and how good we are to make our self motivate enough to let go negative emotions and bring positive emotions in our life.

Never give up, that’s the only key you have for your success.

“Many of life’s failures are people who did not realize how close they were to success when they gave up.” Thomas A. Edison

 

Motivation

It always happened to humans that they feel low and lose their self confidence and left with no motivation. Same happened to me, motivation level was at 90% but a single thing is enough to let me down on my knees and through me back at the point where I started that thing.
Pain, grief & no self confidence is enough to break a hard rock, but I am just a man with emotions, feelings and self esteem. Anybody could be in this situation and you cannot be sure that you will not be in this type of situation. Things happened and we move on, some kept their self low but some took a bold step again and started to walk again on the path they choose.
Look around, failure doesn’t exist in the universe. It is being generated by your own mind that you are a failure, if you keep listening to that you eventually be unsuccessful. If Thomas Edison can make 1000 tries to make an electric bulb what excuse you have not to start again. If you got fail in an exams and feel low think about it that you still got your chance to clear it. Try again, this time whole heartedly and with more passion and you will see that you’ve succeeded.
Motivation is not something which others can give you, it works on 80-20 rule. 80% comes from the inside and 20% comes from the outer sources. If you are dead from inside no matter how many things you do to boost your motivational level you will not be able to turn it on unless you lit it at your own.
If you beleive in something, stay focused and keep struggling for it. But if you quit it at any moment in your life there will be a time when you curse yourself for not making it possible to happen. Look around you, nature, universe, world, sun and moon they all are connected. One cannot simply do all the things, but everyone is doing what his job is to do.
It’s upto you to decide what you really wanted to have in your life and how long you shall be able to keep it. But don’t expect from this world to be easy on you, because they are here to let you down, they are here to demotivates you. It’s you who need to have a complete trust on yourself and to Almighty to accomplish what you wish and desire.

 

Two wolves (Good & Evil within a single body)

Mom told this to me one weekend as a bedtime story when I was young. We discussed it through-out the following day. I share…

“There is a battle that goes on inside us all, the people; which is between two wolves … named: Evil and Good.

The Evil is: anger, envy,  jealousy, sorrow, regret, greed, arrogance, self-pity,  guilt, resentment, inferiority, lies, false pride,  superiority, and ego.

while the Good is: It is joy, peace, love, hope, serenity, humility,  kindness, benevolence, empathy, generosity, truth,  compassion and faith.”

I kept thinking about  it for a minute and then asked: “Which wolf wins?”

Maa replied, ” The one you feed!”

Still wondering and thinking, whom to feed and whom not. Some time, greed comes up and take over the good side, evil side forcing to fulfill the greed at any cost. We all are feeding our evil by making wrong choice, today we are in a world which is more materialistic and to stay up in the community we do all the wrong deeds to satisfy our wrong deeds.

We know when we are feeding our evil, we cannot be in a place to do good to attain peace in our life and spend it peacefully. Status consciousness drives us crazy and we are happy to do things without knowing the fact that either they are good or bad.

Satisfaction and peace can come to us only, when we are satisfy and peaceful from inside and that comes only to us when we are feeding only the good. How come we feed the good wolf? Answer to that question is simple and we all are aware with that.

It’s now up to a person to decide what they really wanted to do with their life and to which wolf they are eager to feed in the end. You can make your life good and bad, that’s in your hand and no one in this whole world can be held responsible for your life which is been chosen by you.

 

*Photo credit: Young Wolf.