Failure, simply means that a person or a thing is unsuccessful or you can say non-performance of something which is required or expected. Well, in psychology, it is a state of mind in which person believes that he is a failure. Failure in humans is nothing more than the mere product of their own mind, which allows them to believe that they are failure. It doesn’t mean that one has to be good in all the things then they claim that they are not a failure.
Thomas Alva Edison a one big name in the science; was dropped from school because of his hearing problem and never went to school again and he often recalled that when he dropped from school; My mother was the making of me, she was so true and so sure of me that I had felt that I had something to live for. His words define that he never quit, he decided to do something so that he can live for something. when he invented electrical bulb and presented it to the public, someone shout Edison you fail 1000 times to make this one and we all use his memorable words today as a quote that; “I’ve not failed, I just found 10,000 ways that won’t work.”
Why throughout history we have number of people who did remarkable things in their life and they achieve what they really wanted to achieve. That’s because of one thing, they never quit, they never let their mind to generate negative thoughts that they are failed and they never listen to the people around them, that’s how they achieve what they want in their life.
Look around you what you see is a world to whom you can never make happy of yourself. What this world knows that it will push you back to the place where you raise from and if they cannot do so they started to pull you towards them. This world can never be happy, no matter what you do. So, how can you be a successful person? How you can beat failure?
If you do something and you failed it in a first try you can find yourself in a place where on one side you find some people who want you to try again, they were the one pushing you to do it, yes do it because they knew that you can do it. But on the other side, you find bunch of people who de-motivate you they started to call you a failure and said so many things to you that while sitting all alone their words through your unconscious mind started to hit your brain. That’s the time when failure can be born, your negative energy from those words push you to admit that you are a failure. If you stop their and admit that you are a failure, you can never be able to get out of that state and through out your whole life you kept thinking that you are a failure.
If you just give it a little push and forget about that negative energy which is generated by the people who call you failure, you can find yourself in peace, surrounded with positive energy and you can started to do that thing once again. You are one ordinary human being like all other humans living on this planet. We all share same size of brain, we all think both ways negative and positive, so it’s not the difference of brain. Difference starts how we use our brains and how good we are to make our self motivate enough to let go negative emotions and bring positive emotions in our life.
Never give up, that’s the only key you have for your success.